Help!  I’m stuck in personal development and I can’t get out.

I’m feeling desperate.

When I started this blog I just wanted to talk about my new discovery for strengthening your mindset.  I just wanted to let you know that – if you’re on the entrepreneurial road and you’re finding it really tough – maybe I can help.

But then I learned that in order to access a certain demographic, like people on the internet who are having a hard time getting on with building successful lives for example, I had to select a certain “market nich” to whom I should aim my message.

Find a pool of good honest hard-working people who are frustrated up to here because, having tried out a few personal development methods and listened to the great gurus spout wisdom at them, they just can’t seem to make it all work.

They’ve read the books. They know that they must “believe in themselves” more and they are aware that failure is just “success as seen from behind”.

Yeah, right.

You know the drill.

But for many victims it just isn’t working. Perhaps you’re there now. Stuck in personal development hell.

I know how that feels. You end the day in a heap on the couch because you feel so totally used up by frustration that it’s a wonder you had the strength to get through the door.  Yet you’re smart enough to recognize the fact that you must do something to build up your ability to cope and to be able to make better choices.

So you soldier on buying the next new self-help program. Hoping this will be the one that will help you over whatever it is you’ve got to get over.

When I started out I was there too but that was over thirty years ago.  I quickly got real tired of the trial-and-error thing. I became disenchanted with all the hype about “positive thinking” methods which were popular back then. I got off that train quickly.

I went on and ended up inventing a whole new way to do personal development on my own. I call it the H.E.R.O. Personal Success Discover eMachine.  What it does is allow you connect with an organic pool of intelligence that’s already inside of you so that everything you experience after that is now virtually “stressless”.

Nothing can ever again interrupt the steady level of happiness you will soon feel. The whole thing takes less than a day to do, you get assigned a live guide to work with you and, the best part is, it’s all FREE.

But I digress.

The mere fact that I had to choose the Personal Development banner to operate under still sticks in my craw.

So, maybe now you can see why I’m complaining that I’m stuck in personal development hell.  I don’t like being here and seen as like “them” because nothing is quite like H.E.R.O. but who’d believe me.

So I had to compromise.

See, there just isn’t a category for “Organic Personal Development” or “reverse searching for success” or a “machine” for locating an immune system for the protection of one’s own level of happiness.

At least, not until now.

More power to you all.

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• Are You Are “As You Think”?

Thinking is something all of us do plenty of every day.

The question is: How does our thinking effect how we “are”?  (Such as our state of health for example)

Generally speaking thinking comes in just two sizes: positive and negative.

Let’s take a quick look at positive thinking first.

According to author Deepack Chopra “thoughts become biology”. If this is true then it follows that if you’re consistently thinking negatively your body will be expressing this attitude in its own state of health. Indeed patients who have a poor outlook about their recovery seem to impede the healing process taking place within them

But positive thinking patients don’t always automatically do well just because they think good thoughts.

For example, after radical bone cancer treatment, one-legged cross-Canada runner Terry Fox, had to interrupt his “Marathon Of Hope” and was again back in hospital after cancer was found in his lungs. Publicly he always said that he would soon return to finish the run but, sadly, never did. He died soon afterwards at the age of just 23.

So, does how we “think” soon become how we “are” physically?

The jury is still out and the debate rages on.

Want my two cents?

I think it’s not just thought that can appear to affect our biology but the state of our nature. A positive nature is not quite the same domain as a mind that only works to positive think on demand.

Having a positive nature is way more organic. It is a state that is established more from what you ‘feel’ inside of you than what your head can think up. Compare the two and thinking just doesn’t cut it at all.

The old maxim I often quote here is the famous mantra “Be, Do, Have”. A state of “being” is a powerful thing not subject to the rapid changes often found in our thoughts or in the attitudes formed by them. Interestingly, a positive nature is something that as very young children we almost all possess.

In my H.E.R.O. workshops conducted over the last thirty years or so, I have witnessed many participants who have declared that they felt more youthful and indeed went on to become better at being themselves.  It seems that when we’re closer to a state of joy we are naturally more open to maintaining a healthy, more youthful body too.

Till next time, more power to you all.

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