“How the heck are you doing?”

I asked an acquaintance whom I hadn’t seen in a while.

He appeared outwardly optimistic but in a fatalist kind of way. Further discussion revealed that he was indeed somewhat worried about his job security with the local newspaper.

“They say it’s the worst economic downturn this generation has ever seen” he said, confirming my impression that he was preoccupied about something.

But this reaction was the exception. Often times if I meet someone and I introduce the subject of the current economic troubles they tend to clam up. It becomes obvious that they’d rather talk about something else.

Anything else. It’s making it difficult to get a good grasp on how people are coping.

Last week GM in Oshawa Ontario permanently closed its truck plant after 60 continuous years of operation. 2,500 workers
lost their jobs. Chrysler is set to axe a raft of dealerships in the US and GM will soon follow that action here in Canada.

GM was the largest company on the planet for a long time.

I can’t bring back GM or Chrysler but I think I can help those folks who need it most.

That’s why I’m offering the one-time use of my H.E.R.O. Personal Success Discovery Machine for free to a few of the many who may have recently been laid off and are feeling “uncertain” about their future. I will be screening candidates and selecting those who I feel could benefit the most.

But first I’d like to know what’s happening out there and how you’re feeling about your future.

Please take this poll:

Results will be posted here in my blog.

Please participate. It’ll only take a minute.

Thanks for your help

n

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I stumbled on a tweet by yaslani in Twitter awhile ago.

It was heart-wrenching.

She was worried about her co-workers who were just informed today by the company they work for that their services were no longer required.

I don’t know Yaslandi.

Never met her.

She’s thousands of miles and three time zones away at least. Wouldn’t know her if she walked up to my front door and knocked.

But, after reading her blog post, if she did rap on my door I’d probably invite her in for a nice cup of tea. She seems like that kind of person.

These days a lot of office workers like Yaslani are suffering from persistent panic attacks about their own jobs let alone having to feel bad about the misfortunes of their comrades.

But I can understand her mindset.

She, like myself, is an artist and artists always feel things.

After all for an artist to feel things, and then to express them in whatever medium they can, is their job.

I think she’s got a great future in it too.

I think that’s the job she should stick with.

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The first three words out of a baby’s mouth:

1. Mama
2. Dada
3. More

Since the day we’re born we all want more. More nourishment, more comfort, more love.

More of everything.

But as long as there have been humans walking this earth there’s one thing we’ve all want more of than anything else: Happiness.

My focus on this site is all about the “happiness mindset” and how to develop and how to maintain it through the “new immunity”. But today I want to talk about one particular aspect of the debate about how happiness is achieved…

More money: Does it bring happiness or not?

I was working on this post when I came across a CNN piece written by Peter Bregman. In it he makes the point that having happiness and having money are not to be confused.

Indeed, Mr. Bregman points out that maybe, in this particular time in human history, we need to learn to be happy with less.

I can’t agree more.

After all, trying to add to our happiness by throwing money at the problem only ever works for the short term. Then it’s back to wanting… more.

Now let’s be clear here I’m not saying that money isn’t necessary. We all need money.

Our personal existence depends on having the basics of life met each and every day. And that does cost money. But when it comes to happiness, research by University of Illinois psychologist Edward Diener, a.k.a. “Dr. Happiness”, shows that additional income does little to raise our sense of satisfaction with life.

Today’s challenges are so complex and pervasive that our happiness has come under constant attack especially since job losses are at an all-time high with whole industries in peril. However despite that, the most recent Gallup Poll shows that consumers, at least in the US, are experiencing a slight easing of worry over finances (34 on the scale) within the last two weeks (down from 38).

But stats are always changing and there’s no guarantee we’ll see a lasting improvement at all.

There’s always hope though. I’ll talk about that in a post a few days from now (look for my next new post: “H.O.P.E. for the Future”).

For now there’s a funny quote from Kin Hubbard that sums up the happiness debate:

“It’s pretty hard to tell what does bring happiness. Poverty an’ wealth have both failed.”

More power to you.

…David

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I got to thinking about the mindset of all these people, many of whom are ordinary career employees, who are struggling to make sense out of the economic rubble around them. Seems like every time I look into one of those on-line forums the complaints pour out like a torrent out of a ruptured dam.

I hear a lot of them center their complaints around the lack of belief they now have in themselves because of the bind they find themselves in. They seem to feel that, as economic downturn victimitis sets in, their sense of control over their family’s future is weakening. They sound rather helpless like they’re all on the verge of falling into the chasm of despair and hopelessness.

A good example of this was an interview on TV one night with a news reporter and some autoworkers from Oshawa Ontario. This particular family had two generations who had followed the heard and went to work at the same GM plant every day collectively for several decades. One was a retired worker and the other was his son. Both looked like deer caught in the headlights of the new reality.

I think I know why.

It’s because the belief they did have was being falsely supported by all good stuff that was their life before the fall. Good jobs, nice homes, new cars, great vacations, a secure union contract. That’s a heck of a lot of positive reinforcement and it made them believe that whatever they were doing they were doing it right and that it would never end.

Until the day they woke up to the meltdown we have today.

No, not that meltdown.

The meltdown I’m talking about is not the one happening between the Dow Jones’ and the Nazdaqs, nor the Freddie Macs and the  Fannie Mae’s – that can be fixed with a boxcar or two stuffed with moola.  The meltdown I’m referring to the meltdown that’s taking place between people’s ears.

That’s the one that’s shooting the feet out from under their belief systems. That’s the one that will take a whole paradigm shift to set right. Unfortunately, the chances of that happening for all of the millions that will be affected in this financial fracas is a slim one. Many will simply not have what it takes to pull it off because they have little in the way of effective adaptation skills. They’re not interested in providing new marketable value to the changing world. They prefer to dream on and lobby government to put things back the way they were. (Reference: “Who Moved My Cheese”)

I have an idea how we can all help.

Anyone wanna buy a new car?

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